When The Going Gets Tough…
3 Ways Using My Future Focus Visual Map Can Help You Make Hard Choices
Ok friend…how long did you say you were standing at this crossroad? I know exactly how you feel! It’s so hard to make the right call when you can’t foresee the ultimate outcome. A future focus visual map serves as a tool that highlights your current/future desired reality; who you were, who you are now, and who you want to be. It highlights thoughts, strengths, ideas, feelings, struggles, successes, and major events in your life. The best part of the process is that it helps you make tough decisions.
1. It eliminates useless options
What’s love got to do with it? The focus of love has to begin with you. For my ladies out there who have survived divorce, if I were to tell you that could see your options in advanced and select the best one for your life, wouldn’t you do all you could to know? I understand the pain of divorce, the way your life is never the same, and you have to fight for a new normal. A future focus visual map helps you to eliminate useless options by showing you your journey up to this point and the effective route you can take to better your situation. Knowing who the losers are ahead of time begins with knowing who you are. Having a better sense of self helps you to be extremely selective when it comes to your career, health, and even your love life!
2. It creates a clear target
Let’s get down to it! What do you want? A future focus visual map can help you to know what you want and how to go after it. It’s an amazing tool that helps you to get a clear target, a sharpened focus. I know all too well how depressing life can be, living aimlessly without a purpose or goal, and even worse, never becoming the women you were meant to be because of horrible relationships. When I reflect on my story to include the women in my family and how we allowed men, poor decision making, poor self-care and self-limiting beliefs keep us from finding love, joy and success; it’s disheartening! The shit breaks my heart just thinking about it.
I created this service to keep women from going down this very path.
My mother had 4 sisters who were never wives and raised their kids on their own. They struggled financially, physically and emotionally as they never recovered from the damaging effects of toxic relationships. Sadly, the fathers played no pivotal role in the lives of their children, neither were they financial resources, the enormous responsibility of raising children and being economically sound fell on their shoulders. Perhaps your story is similar to mine or your crossroad consists of whether or not you’re ready to leave these kind-of-toxic relationships, this is what a future focus visual map can help you with.
3. It reveals the perfect plan of action
The best part of learning anything new is the power of repetition. We automatically know B comes after A in the alphabet from constant practice and visual aids. A future focus visual map lays out the steps you need to take to reach specific goals; it takes the guess work out of the way to infuse a real plan of action for real results. I didn’t have a firm plan in place when I was married, that crossroad turned into a rabbit hole that lead to divorce. I didn’t take the time to envision a future with him, how we could complement each other’s lives, or what my emotional plan was to address the hard parts of our marriage. I was 21 years old and I loved my ex-husband/child’s father but, I couldn’t see myself married to the same man for the rest of my life. I was so immature and entered into a serious covenant prematurely. When I look back now, I knew my future didn’t have a man attached to my desired reality. I had to learn to rely on my self-sufficiency and empower myself to become a whole being, not necessarily in need of a man to complete me. My new vision was transformed into creating the life I wanted for me and my beautiful daughter.
I’ve lived it friend! I know heartache first hand, even when I’ve suffered at my own lack of preparation. No more winging it, no more submitting to willy nilly probablies and heartbreaking possibilities. I am in control and when I need a little more guidance on which road to walk on, what turn to take, and what direction will ultimately lead me to my goal, I rely on a future focus visual map. This is my passion! To infuse my story, to be the living proof of how this works and it’s my life’s mission to save you from as much heartache as possible. I’m determined to inspire you to think of crossroads as an exciting way to approach new ventures. The power is all yours, you are in control of your future, you get to decide what your journey will be! A future focus visual map will show you the ABC’s of your choices, clarify a clear path from point A to point B, and help you to see it live and in color.
Hello again friend! I’m Rochelle Nicole, a visual coach with skills in visual facilitation and I have a passion to help women succeed. Prayerfully my story about toxic relationships and divorce can serve as a testimony of hope and empower you to make choices that will benefit your future. No matter what crossroad you find yourself on, be encouraged, life is about making choices and I’m here to help you make the best ones!
Book me today to get a live capture of what’s going on in that beautiful mind of yours as I illustrate a future focus visual map for you. Leave our coaching session feeling motivated and inspired! I’m here for you!
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